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Role of Ritual
Overview
Developing an appreciation of the rituals
associated with various religious belief systems aids spiritual
care-giving for oncology patients. As spiritual needs such as
meaning, purpose, hope, love, forgiveness and gratitude, or
spiritual issues such as fear, anger, guilt, shame, or sadness are
identified, patients may find hope and comfort in the practices and
rituals of their religious beliefs. Although religion and
spirituality are different, the rituals of religion may be an avenue
to the spiritual connectedness with self, others, and God and help
with questions of suffering or an afterlife. Rituals alone can
become mechanical but with faith they can give shape to the more
abstract beliefs one holds. The practice of a particular ritual can
be the means that we outwardly express an inner belief or prepare
our hearts and minds to inwardly accept a divine intervention.
Rituals can point to the sacred, the holy, the transcendent.
Rituals belong to the social life of society.
They can remind us of who we are or to whom we belong. They place a
present circumstance into the traditions of history and those who
have gone before us. For someone that has long been alienated from
their religion, a cancer diagnosis may the catalyst for a return to
the practice of one’s faith. A life review may remind a patient of
times of religious support or meaning. Oncology nurses can assist
in mobilizing spiritual resources as they are familiar with the
rituals of one’s religion. An awareness and respect of the rituals
at the end of life are essential in compassionate caregiving and
will have continual effects as they may help to meet the spiritual
needs of loved ones who are left to grieve, mourn and find meaning
in their loss.
Case Study
In Diane Brady's case, careful assessment at each stage of the
cancer trajectory will reveal spiritual issues that are important
for Diane. Research indicates that spiritual needs differ with each
phase of the cancer experience (Halstead & Hull, 2001; Taylor,
2000). Thus, rituals may be more important for the individual at
certain timeframes, and interventions will also differ. For example,
if the individual is angry at God, or a spiritual care provider such
as a pastor or rabbi, the suggestion of practicing religious rituals
may not be helpful until the anger is "worked through." Rather, an
intervention such as writing God a letter or journaling could be
more appropriate.
Examples of religious and
end-of-life traditions/rituals:
- Christian or associated with
Christianity:
| Catholic.................... |
- Mass
- Praying the rosary
- Holy water, icons
- Annointing of the Sick (last rites)
- Sacrament of Reconciliation (confession)
- Eucharist
- Funerals usually 2-3 days after death
- Mass may be held on anniversary of death.
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| Orthodox................... |
- Last annointing before or after
death
- Confession and holy communion done by priest
- Memorial service on a Sunday closest to 40th day after
- Widows avoid social activities for one year
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| Protestant.................... |
- Baptism, confirmation
- Worship, prayer, singing, sermon
- No last rites, prayers for comfort and support
- Annointing of the sick accepted by some
- Some believe in faith healing
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| Church of Latter Day Saint(Mormon).............. |
- Sacrament if
patient requests
- Baptism for the dead
- Endowment for the dead and the living
- Sealings for the
dead and the living
- Second anointing
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| Jehovah’s Witnesses... |
- Do not belive in sacraments
- Commemorate the
Memorial of Christ’s Death/Lord’s Supper annually
- May attend
meetings 3/wk in Kingdom Hall
- Door to door
evangelizing
- Refuse to accept blood transfusions
- Do not use
images/icons in worship
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- Yom Kippur (Day of Atonement)
- Passover
- Bar Mitzvah, Bat
Mitzvah
- Kosher foods
(alternative might be vegetarian)
- Emphasis on
prolonging life
- Dying person not
left alone, rabbi presence desired
- Death
ritual—Shema (confession prayer)
- After death, body placed on the floor with feet
towards
the door,
covered with a sheet, candle placed near head
- Body
not moved if at home on Sabbath.
- Mourning-tearing
of a garment symbolized in pinning a
black
ribbon to garment and tear the ribbon
- Funerals- day after
death,white shroud, wood,closed coffin,
brief service
- Stages of
mourning-death until 30 days from burial
- Autopsy and
cremation forbidden
- Death
anniversaries are noted
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- 5
pillars of Islam (confession of faith daily; prayer five
times a
day; fasting during month of Ramadan;almsgiving; pilgrimage to Mecca)
- Fasting under Ramadan
not required for the sick
- Pork forbidden,
other meats prepared under Islamic law
- Alcohol
forbidden
- Second degree
male relative (uncle/cousin) is contact
- Patient may
choose to face Mecca
- Discussions about death may not be welcomed
- Stopping
medical treatment against Allah’s will
- Grief may be expressed by slapping bod
- Same sex Muslim handle
body after death, otherwise
non-Muslim
should wear gloves
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- Vegetarians
- Fasting during festivals not
required of patients
- Hindu priest
assist in death process-tying thread around
neck of
wrist, sprinkling with water from Ganges
River, or
placing leaf of basil on tongue
- Do not wah body
after death
- Death seen as philosophical
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- Vegetarian diet because of belief in reincarnation
- Consult
Buddhists monks to offer spiritual support
- Shrine to Buddah
may be placed in patient’s room to
spend time
meditating
- Mindfulness important, may refuse mind altering
opiods
- After death,
monk recites prayers for one hour
- Most have body
cremated
- Ceremony after one year
to generate energy for the dead
in new
incarnation
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- Sweat
lodge place of ritual for purification, healing and
spiritual
renewal
- Hunting
ceremonies and rituals dealing with spirits
- Fire men,
drummers, chanting at healing services
- Circle dances,
joining hands
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Resources:
Kirkwood, N. A. (1993). A hospital handbook on
multiculturalism and religion: Practical guidelines for health care
workers. Harrisburg, PA: Morehouse Publishing.
Kagawa-Singer, M. (1998). The cultural context of death rituals
and mourning practices. Oncology Nursing Forum, 25,
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Simpson, C. (2005) |